Dating in college
What’s up everybody today in this blog post I’ll be going over my top 5 best dating tips for college students, Let’s get started with the tip number one :
Tips No. 1) Use common classes/ programs groups as your introduction
Now guys often struggle with what is the first thing you’re going to say the world that you want to go up to and Talk to and since you both share a common environment, here aks your classes program school then a hold environment this can be an excellent way for you to make your Introduction simply go up to that person that you. Well I can just add some, Hey Aren’t you so-and-so from that class Oh have a majority Oh, how are you liking. You know everything sit and that is an interesting way that you can make Small talk and actually introduce our rather than just you know go up to them and really try to flirt right off the bat because It usually doesn’t work out that way . If you start off with a very general conversation about you know This shared environment that you both have it’s actually gonna work in your favour.
Tips No.2) Genuinely get to know them ( Don’t interview them)
I’ve never done business that generally gets to know the other person. They’re transitioning your small talk into a bit deeper Open-ended question like why did this person show this for them. What do they plan to do in the future and the key thing here is you do not want to interview. Don’t just keep rapid-firing questions off the top of your head because girls can pick up on that and it’s going to seem like you’re just trying to ask A number of questions before you shoot your shot Which is really going to work against you because they know nothing about you. You are just some stranger that’s trying to make a first impression that they don’t anything about. Why would they give their number and Social media, even if you’re an attractive handsome guy that can still come off as well serial killer creepy but here are the things you want to do to gently get to know the other person.
Genuine be actually interested in them, not just a means to an end. Here you want to look for common interest that you have a common interest even if you don’t have a lot of common interest you Need to see if you are emotionally compatible, which is a lot to do with the personality type you see how they react to certain jokes how they have a enunciate and say stuff and what they find funny it can actually be a better telltale sign whether you guys are at A little bit more compatible or just the attraction.
He’s just purely physical because of common interest a lot of people think oh, you got something in common great not necessarily the case. It doesn’t matter if you guys have everything in common if you’re going to be arguing while you’re doing that thing. It really doesn’t matter. It’s how you leap how they react to certain things that you say and how you say it, and what is their reaction to it.
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Tips No.3 Don’t overstay
Now a lot of times guys when you go to the talks over anything like they really just want to go balls to the walls in that first interaction make you Go to first impression get good Get a good conversation going then a store number and everything this if you overstay your welcome Especially the first time you talk to somebody you’re gonna come off as desperate and girls can sense a desperation Like it’s the plague or something ridiculous.
I don’t know how but they just know here You want to be you want to be charming here. You want to be subtle you wanna. It’s a marathon not a sprint in this case because I’m hopefully you’re looking for a genuine relationship in your life right now and here what you wanna do is you want to see how the conversation is going if it’s going Well, there’s no awkward long pauses.
There’s a good you know, both parties are you know, give and take it’s very it’s natural But if you start to see the body language start to close up and start to turn away start looking over She starts looking over your shoulder to leave. These are all telltale signs that this conversation is over.This person wants to leave and go about their day Which you should do the same because if you keep you know being persistent in staying there.
You’re more likely to be rejected because you seem desperate and you seem like there’s nothing anything else that you’d rather be doing in your life right now than just talking to this person and try to get in to Go on with his person you try to make it seem like getting a girl is like the purpose of your existence down there nothing else. You should be doing be very subtle and charming about it have a little bit of a conversation Flirt a little bit and then what’s some swagger.
Exit that conversation because you want to make a great first impression ,You want to make her feel comfortable around you and yet you want a – in a little bit of Flirting so the next time you go up to her and talk to her and when you really shoot your shot I think you should be on the second time If you know you’re going to this person again Then she’s gonna be putty in your heads because you already made such a good first impression that she’s probably going to think about you A little bit more after you’re gone in which she sees you against that. Oh, that’s a cute guy from math class.
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Tips No.4 Dress Smart Casual
We’re transitioning away from the conversation has been any to your personal appearance and that is addressed with these smart casual aesthetic. This is where you really want your fashion sense that start to grow up either You’re just gonna start learning more about how to dress properly or you’re starting to graduate away from the street wear Hypebeast aesthetic with to something a little bit more smart casual like this outfit that I’m wearing here It’s a prime example of so nice a little more smart casual.
You know Younger man style a little more street wear because I’m wearing a hoodie sneaker these are usually I would pair with like a trick pair of jeans, but I’m cleaning it up with a pair of olive green Chinos, so this a little looks a little more professional the sneakers here You can go with retro sneakers or something a little more minimal. It shows that you can still dress, you know, young and fun But you can also clean it up when it’s necessary to have you look a little bit more mature and a little bit more grown-up which is a nice aesthetic to have.
Tips No.5) Final tip on this list is the plan cheap yet effective dates
Plan cheap yet romantic dates now I understand being a college student having disposable income to spend on liquor on Drinks on going down. It’s just not the case for a lot people now a lot of guys test really over thing what they’re gonna do for the first day because, they want to be you know, make something do a really good job.
So you’re gonna be a second aid in the third that’s relationship, But they said to miss the point here. The action that you’re you to are going to partake in is only Secondary that’s working on guys, but it doesn’t matter if you’re getting a smooth.You’re getting a coffee or you’re getting sushi, or you’re getting Pizza. It’s about what you’re really going to talk abou,t it’s like it doesn’t matter what you’re doing is gonna be sitting there awkwardly in silence .
The key thing here is that you really want to focus more on the conversation. What do you guys are gonna talk about. What are you going to look for right and you want to see if the attraction goes beyond physical and – more emotional then you guys are really compatible and could be a couple .
Thank you everyone for reading
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